When you're out at any social scene, rather it be that you're looking for a good time, or out on the prowl, confidence is going to be the key factor to your night.
You should be confident enough that you're game/swag is good enough that you will be able to charm a completely sober lady. And that throwing round after round of drinks at a girl is not the way to win over a girl. It may be a good way to have her wake up with a few regrets the next morning, but you don't want to be called a regret do you?
So when you're out and you see an attractive lady you would like to talk to, don't immediately throw drinks at her. (I don't mean literally, in most places that's a huge offense). That's one more detail that will separate you from the stereotypical "Get her drunk and have sex" guy.
Your opener should not be "Hi my name is Razz, can i buy you a drink?" You'll be categorized as a free drink guy, which in turn will lead to shallow conversation and empty pockets. Instead, use charm, confidence and humor to win the/a girl over.
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