Alright guys, D-Ran did a top 5 bit, and this is my top 5, directed specifically to courting the ladies.
1. CONFIDENCE. CONFIDENCE. CONFIDENCE. I don't know how else to say it.
Confidence breeds success, success breeds confidence. Believe in yourself.
2. Know how to listen! Even if you're faking it, do a good job of it. No girl wants to talk to a wall. Even if her talking/rambling/complaining seems to have no end, asking the right questions at the right time will show her that you understand and will cut down on her describing situations... Which means less talking... and more... fuc... whatever you guys enjoy doing in your spare time.
3. Dress to the occasion. Example: Don't wear flip flops to dinner. Even though it may seem like a casual event, keep in mind that she took the time and effort to put on a "cute outfit," put on makeup, do her hair, etc.
4. Little things count and chivalry isn't dead. There's nothing wrong with getting the door for her, letting her sit down first and picking up the tab. Even though it seem unimportant, she will recognize these little details...
Details lead to points, points lead to kudos and kudos lead to you know...
5. Going for drinks doesn't always mean sex. Buying her drinks doesn't make you a panty dropper. Make a too forward move and you could ruin the whole date and get branded a pervert.
This isn't a movie, and you probably don't look like Brad Pitt. Hate to break it to you, sorry.
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